About Me
I got pulled into meditation in high school. The wonderful claims of all the gurus drew me in. I moved from guru to guru. I tried everything.
Yeah, meditation brought joy in practice while doing practice standalone. I fell into the trap of doing a lot of practice.
But realities stepped in. While practicing, there were joys and pleasures — but joy just at practicing alone did not eradicate suffering.
Extended standalone practice caused one thing: alienation from regular life. Life is whole. Life needs everything.
What I Teach
I am here to teach what works — what brings emotional regulation without damaging career or relationships.
Meditation stripped down to basics. Meditation that fits life.
What Is Meditation?
Meditation is hard to define. Definitions differ by traditions. Many practices exist, but not all bring meaningful results.
All practices share one trait: directing attention to specific objects. Meditation, at its core, is the ability to direct or control attention.
For me, meditation must be something that can be done:
- At home
- At work
- In relationships
- In academia
Anything that fits everywhere is a good meditation. Anything that does not fit life is not.
My Preferred Practice
I have tried many varieties of meditation.
Breath watching gives maximum results with minimal harm — when practiced correctly.
Mindfulness & Breath Watching
Breath watching is a form of mindfulness. My take: it’s the good one to pick up. Depth matters more than variety.
Variations are fine for full-time monks. For people with careers and families, simplicity works best.
Breath watching is:
- Simple enough to do anywhere
- Potent enough to regulate the nervous system
How to Do Breath Watching
Watch the incoming and outgoing breath at your nostrils.
That’s all.
Thoughts & Emotions
You can either ignore paricular thoughts and emotions or engage with them at a moment. No one can decide this for you. Judgment comes from trial and error when to engage or when to ignore.
Breath watching makes thoughts and emotions clearer and more manageable. Use it to decide wisely.
When to Practice
Practice during life — not away from it.
- At work
- In bed after waking up
- During mundane daily activities
Life needs career, relationships, and action.
Important Clarifications
Meditation has no religion. Everyone breathes. Attention has no belief system.
You don’t need to be a monk. Live ethically. Live fully.
Meditation can amplify emotions and sensations. If things become heavy, pause and engage with life. Seek professional help if needed.
Need personal guidance? Reach out directly at esor2100@gmail.com.